Other People’s Thoughts: from Jayber Crow

“Telling a story is like reaching into a granary full of wheat and drawing out a handful. There is always more to tell than can be told. As almost any barber can testify, there is also more than needs to be told, and more than anybody wants to hear.”

- Wendell Berry, Jayber Crow

A fine line to walk, a fine boundary to discover, the right amount of story to tell and the right amount to leave out. Something to think about as a writer and editor, but I imagine it’s also an apt word for just about everyone to apply to conversations with anyone other than a counselor!

 

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Other People’s Thoughts: The Translator

In light of my post earlier this week about listening to people and helping them tell their stories, I wanted to share a  couple of quotes for today’s Other People’s Thoughts from the book The Translator: A Tribesman’s Memoir of Darfur. The author, Daoud Hari, himself escaped the war in Sudan, then went back to serve as a translator during the UN investigation of the genocide. He helped interview those affected by the war, and one chapter in the book is called “Two and a Half Million Stories.”

Hari says, “It helps many people just to have someone listen and write their story down; if their suffering is noted somewhere, by someone, anyone, then they can more easily let loose of it because they know where it is.”

At the close of his book, Hari calls his readers into action: “…it has no meaning to take risks for news stories unless the people who read them will act.”

So I ask myself, how are the stories I read moving me to act? How are the stories I’m writing helping others to act on something?

I’m not saying that we should only read or write stories that spur us to take up a cause or something like that (although those are really important stories to read and write). But how do stories teach us and move us and become a part of us in deep ways?

Those aren’t rhetorical questions — please share your thoughts and answers in the comments below.

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Telling Stories

A few days before I left on my drive up here to Washington, I sat down with a few Chin refugees from Burma to interview them about how they ended up in Texas. I spent the day listening to their stories, typing notes, and thinking over the experience of conducting these interviews. During my last few years in Yunnan, part of my work involved driving a truck to remote villages along the Burma border to interview indigenous peoples about their language and culture and religion. I absolutely loved sitting in their homes and asking questions and hearing their stories. Now here I was, after a 90 minute trip through rush hour traffic in Dallas-Fort Worth that required a different set of driving skills than the mountains of Yunnan, talking to young people from the other side of the Burma border from where I had lived. A strange circle of events, wouldn’t you say?

My interviews in Texas were for a project I’m working on about the persecution of the Chin people by the Burmese government, told through the stories of several young refugees now relocated to the U.S. Listening to the things these kids went through, first in their villages, then as they endured the dangers of escape, and later in the terrible limbo of undocumented status in Malaysia, I was aware that they were entrusting me with something precious. They were telling me the horrific details not as a means of shocking me, but in the hopes that something good could come of others hearing their story.

I sat there in Starbucks with one guy, a skinny 20-year-old in jeans and a t-shirt, while he told me about being shot at and beaten, about surviving in a tiny boat on the ocean. I was overwhelmed with the absurdity of hearing this harrowing account while sitting there all warm and cozy and safe with our lattes.

And I was convinced once again of both the importance of telling stories and that helping people tell their stories is something I can do well. I’m not saying that to puff myself up or to try to sound important — I say it because it’s good for us to find the things we do well, and then to, um, do them well.

So for me right now that means getting up each morning, turning on my laptop, spreading pages of notes and drafts on the table around me, and telling Lydia’s story, the story of the Chin in Burma, and the story of how food insecure preschoolers in Wake County, North Carolina, are getting their tummies filled and learning healthy eating habits.

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